
The word 'bespoke' essentially means 'tailor made or 'personalised'. A Bespoke Civil Funeral therefore is a Ceremony that is designed and created to meet your family's needs, wishes and beliefs. In a Civil Funeral the focus is very much on celebrating the life of your loved one who has died and, providing you with the type of funeral service that you want.
Your experienced and professional Celebrant Neil Dorward will help you create the most meaningful and dignified funeral service befitting your loved one who has died.
We will ensure you have the funeral that you want . Therefore you can combine hymns and prayers with favourite poetry and CD music. Your experienced and professional Celebrant, Neil Dorward, will help you create the most meaningful and dignified funeral service that is a true reflection of your loved one who has died.
One of the unique and personalised aspects of a civil funeral conducted by Bespoke Civil Ceremonies is that we keep you constantly invloved in the creation of the service. Through the use of email, a draft version of the entire service - including the eulogy/tribute- will be sent to you normally within 24 hours of our initial meeting. This means that you can change and personalise the funeral in any way you see fit and can even make changes right up until the night before the service. Now YOU decide the words and the general tone of the funeral celebration.
During bereavement, it is comforting to have experienced and qualified people to help you through the funeral process. Our Celebrant offers personalised, compassionate and dignified funeral services and, will ensure this final act of love, will help you express your affections and final farewells.
Bespoke Civil Ceremonies will make sure that all the special moments in your loved one's life are captured and cherished on the day of the funeral.
LISTEN TO WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING
“After the funeral, we had a huge amount of comments from family and friends on the service that Neil delivered. We were highly delighted with Neil because he was very personal and perfectly summed up what dad was like. The service genuinely affected and touched everyone. He helped us feel calm on the day and everything he said was appropriate and greatly appreciated.”
- GD and family, Kirkcaldy
“ We cannot thank Neil enough for what he did for our family when Meg died. Although we were 12,000 miles away in New Zealand, we were still involved and helped create the funeral service for our gran. He is a patient and wise man who calmly understood our needs.”
- The Dondonski family , New Zealand
Neil's warm and friendly service were quite exceptional, the funeral service
was just as mum would have wanted, personal and celebratory in a rather
dignified way. My brother, a Captain in the Black Watch stated the funeral
service was first class, relevant and so touching.
-John Gilfillan, Cardenden, Fife
.. you came into our family and showed great compassion and made it so easy for us to relax and talk about dad and remember the good times. Even when we did get that bit emotional you carried us through. What a brilliant tribute you delivered. S M
I don't think anyone could have done a better job of delivering such a personal tribute,
so thank you with all my heart. F E
Since the funeral I have had many of the people who attended tell me that it was one of the nicest service`s that they have been to. M M
..everyone who spoke to me at the Crematorium said what a great service it was. They thought you actually knew Dad and they wanted to know who you were. L B
Everyone I spoke to thought the service was really fitting. It was all about my mum and that’s what mattered. … how it was composed and delivered made the difference. M R
I have been to many funerals in my life but this service was one of the best I have ever been to. H G
Experienced, fully trained and accredited Civil Funeral Celebrants.
A home visit will be made where the nature and content of your Civil Funeral Ceremony will be discussed and created in accordance with your family's wishes, values and beliefs. Our professionally trained Funeral Celebrant will offer you suggested readings, poetry, music, reflections etc to choose from, although families may offer their own suggested material for the funeral service. For example, you may have a favourite piece of music or poetry or a 'show and tell’ item that had special meaning and significance to family.
During the ceremony, the Funeral Celebrant will deliver a eulogy reflecting the individual’s personal stories, memories, loves etc. However, if a friend or member of the family wishes to deliver the eulogy and say a few words, this can be accommodated. Help will be offered in writing these words. Bespoke Civil Ceremonies will ensure that a Funeral Ceremony is created to meet your wishes and desires. A Civil Funeral is special because it allows the family to get involved as much or as little as they want and to even be creative. An example of participation is perhaps a grandchild reading a poem about their grandad who has died.
Gold Service costs £125 and includes
A home visit / consultation that will enable a personalised Funeral Ceremony
and eulogy to be created. A fully scripted ‘draft’ version of the service will
then be sent to you by email, normally within 24 hours. On the day of the funeral,
a memorial copy of the eulogy will be given to you and a Remembrance Card posted one month later.
Platinum Service costs £150 and includes
All of the above plus an audio recording of the funeral service on CD presented
to you in a commemorative CD box
Diamond Service costs £175 and includes
Same as Platinum Service, plus a dedicated Web site with your loved ones photographs, funeral tribute, poems etc - a secure site that friends and family
can visit for ever and ever
Your Celebrant Neil Dorward has invaluable experience with difficult and specialist funerals such as; funerals for babies, those who have taken their own lives and those who have died as a result of unlawful killing. Your needs and wishes will be paramount so that the funeral is conducted in accordance with your will. Click here for more information on specialist funerals.
Civil Funerals are unique and special because we do not preach a philosophy at you on the funeral day. We will only include religious elements, such as hymns or prayers, if this is your family’s wish. We respect your values and create the funeral according to your beliefs. Click here for more information on beliefs on death.
Bespoke Civil Ceremonies will design beautiful colour funeral brochures and credit card size memorial cards so that family and friends can treasure their memory. Click here for samples.
Funeral Directors in Dundee, Perth and Fife, Stirling and Falkirk areas
1.. R Sturrock and Sons, 150a Lochee Road, Dundee DD2 2LD Tel: 01382 667745
2. Comb and Davidson, 135 South Road, Dundee DD2 3EP Tel: 01382 611506
3. Sturrock, Coombe and Davidson, 34a Forfar Rd, Dundee DD4 7AY Tel: 01382 462159
4. Wallaces, 55a Strathmartine Road, Dundee DD3 7RX Tel: 01382 825726
5. Robert Samson Ltd, 175 King St, Broughty Ferry, Dundee DD5 2AX Tel: 01382 477124
6. Stewart Funeral Directors Ltd, 14 High Street, Kinross, KY13 8AN Tel: 01577 864607
7. James McEwan & Son, 52 George St, Perth, PH1 5JL Tel: 01738 625362
8. Strang & McLagan, 20 Atholl St, Perth, PH1 5NP Tel: 01738 623262
9. J & J Gray, 22-30 Perth Road, Dundee DD1 4LN Tel 01382 225991
10. James Smeaton & Sons, 24 Victoria Street, Dundee DD4 6EB Tel 01382 461320
11. W. S & D Gibson, Bailey House, 42b Grey St, Tayport, Fife DD6 9HW Tel: 01382 552275
12. Crosbie Matthew, 1 Cloanden Pl, Kirkcaldy, Fife KY2 5PA Tel: 01592 640644
13. Crosbie Matthew, 6 Church St, Glenrothes, Fife KY7 5ND Tel: 01592 751997
14. William Jordan & Son Ltd, Upper Dalgairn, Cupar , Fife KY15 4JJ Tel: 01334 655044
15. Co-operative Funeral Service ,23 Dewar St, Dunfermline, Fife, KY12 8AD Tel: 01383 723556
16. Co-operative Funeral Service, Cos Lane, Glenrothes, Fife, KY7 4AH Tel: 01592 752392
17. Co-operative Funeral Service, 20-21 The Esplanade, Kirkcaldy, Fife, KY1 1HR Tel: 01592 260636
18. Co-operative Funeral Service, 20 Kerse Lane, Falkirk FK1 1RQ Tel : 01324 623788
19. Co-operative Funeral Service, 49 Bo’ness Road, Grangemouth FK3 8AN Tel : 01324 483377
20. Co-operative Funeral Service, 23 High Street, Lochgelly, KY59JP Tel: 01592 780308
21. Co-operative Funeral Service, 8 High Street, Cowdenbeath, KY4 9NA Tel: 01383 510024
22. Co-operative Funeral Service, 663 Wellesley Rd, Denbeath, Methil KY8 3PQTel: 01592 713426
23. Co-operative Funeral Service, 4 Broomieknowe, Commercial Rd, Leven KY8 4QP Tel: 01333 439444
24. Co-operative Funeral Service, Arbroath Road Dundee, Tel: 01382 204400
25. Co-operative Funeral Service, Sunnyside Road, Alloa FK102AP Tel: 01259 724211
26. John Mitchell Funeral Directors, Station Road, Leven KY8 4QN Tel: 01333 424904
27. John Stoddart and Sons, 107 New Row, Dunfermline KY12 7DZ Tel: 01383 721284 (24 hours)
28. Taylor Sullivan Funeral Directors, 6 Gardeners Street, Dunfermline KY12 0RN Tel: 01383 621588
29. Fife Funeral Services, 15 Dysart Road, Kirkcaldy KY1 2AY Tel: 01592 268847
30. Callum Robertson Funeral Directors, 1 Brodick Road, Kirkcaldy KY2 6EY Tel : 01592 595000 (24 hour)
31. William Anderson, 604 Wellesley Road, Methil, Leven Tel: 01592 714005
32. George Berry, 24 Bank Street, Lochgelly KY5 9QQ Tel: 01592 780275
33. Tracy Wood Funeral Directors, Cardenden Tel: 01592 721789
34. Ewings of Kelty, Main Street, Kelty, Tel: 01383 831351
35. Co-op Funeralcare.20 Kerse Lane, Falkirk Tel: 01324 623788
36. Co-Op Funeralcare, 50 Henderson Street, Bridge Of Allan Tel: 01786 834400
37. Co-op Funeralcare,Riverside House, 2 Forth Street, Stirling Tel:
01786 472838
Your Bespoke Civil Funeral Pack
Every family will receive a Bespoke Civil Funeral pack with relevant information and a lovely collection of poems and readings for a funeral